6 Signs He Could Be Mr Right!

Have you ever met a guy and just had this feeling that he could be Mr right! I did and it scared the life out of me. Don’t get me wrong there were a few things that made me think he’s like every other guy but there was a lot that made me think this could be the one. And it terrified me. 

 
It scared me because it made me think I would have to grow up, because there's something about being in a proper relationship after being single for so long that makes me want to hide under my duvet till the end of times. Has this ever happened to you?

How do you know?

1. He would ALWAYS get out of the car to open/close it for me 

2. Walk me to my door, never expecting to come in
3. Plan dates based on things I said I loved
4. Ask me about specific parts of my day that I may have mentioned before hand. (Not the usual how was your day)
5. Never argue back, not even when the cray cray was at level 100% 
6. Made it clear there was only me and no one else.

Now I’m not saying this means he’s the one that is going to take me to the alter....but he sure did seem better than some others I had come across. You know the type, every single day is how was your day, these times you had the most serious conversation about some stuff that was going to happen at work and rather than ask how it went, you get that basic generic "how was your day", that he probably copied and pasted to all his chicks.

One last thing I will say on this topic is, you may feel the things I listed aren’t important or mean nothing  but take some time to reflect on the person your talking to/seeing. How attentive are they to you? Do they make you feel as though it’s just you? Or is there so much room and reason for doubt?
Would love to know your thoughts on this topic. 

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Peace out SLGG!

My 2016 so far!

Hey hey ladies, I know it’s been a really long time. I’ve had so much going on, a mind just wondering here and there. But I’m back! So let me fill you in on what’s been happening.

I started a new role that’s had me tearing out my hair, (it feels good to say hair and not weave haha) and trying to find my feet. It really has been a challenge for me so much so I was willing to give it all up and go back to a role I knew I could do with my eyes closed. But that’s just giving up and not me. So everyday I give myself a quite talk and keep going. Taking lots of deep breaths along the way. I mean if it’s not a challenge what’s the point? I would never grow, I wouldn’t learn new things, I wouldn’t be able to better myself or my practise, so I just got to keep on going. What doesn’t break you makes you stronger right?!

Anyway what else has been happening, I was DATING, you heard me right dating a real life actual guy, really cute too, nice car, good job and did I forget to say very cute. But, but, but, there’s always a but. There were things that just cringed me out about him. And tbh I don’t want my blog to go in a certain direction so I’m just going to stop right there. Well maybe I’ll  name the other things. He seemed so secretive, there was always a reason why I could never go to his place, he would disappear for hours over the weekend and it was either because he was sleeping or in hospital, I mean seriously how many times can a person end up in hospital?! Anyway as much as I really wanted this to work, something inside of kept saying he wasn’t the one. So that came to an end, unfortunately not a good one. But hey that’s life.

I’ve also been spending so much time concentrating on achieving my goals I set out at the beginning of 2016. Trying to make sure by the end of each month I have something I can tick of my list. I won’t speak too much on this, if you want to know more send me a message, and I may write a post on that too.

Now I’ve caught you up with me. What’s new for you ladies and men? I’ve been receiving some nice feedback from men too. How sweet. Lol. How has your new year goals been taking shape? Any new experiences you would like to share? 

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Peace out ladies and guys, here’s to more posts. 

Psycho or Tease

I find this topic so funny because one can turn a guy completely of you while the other leaves them wondering is this girl for real, am I in with a chance, am I actually going to get lucky? 

Let me break this down I’m the psycho as we established in my previous post The Shocking Truth About Crazy Women, and a good friend of mine is totally the tease.

Now from my past experiences being the psycho gets you no where, it confirms to the guy your a nut job and has him running so fast when he finally does stop it definitely isn’t to look back. She’s the girl or should I say I’m  the girl that deletes the number because  he took too long to reply, then feels silly when he finally does reply so adds it back, then in 24 hours later deletes it again for yet yet another silly reason, just to go to so much effort to find it again then save it because  obviously  I want him to see how sexy I look in my display picture and when he’s acting up I need to be able to make sure he’s seen the meme I stole of instagram  that clearly explains why I’m so irritated with him or what it is I would like him to do. Because just like the tease the psycho finds it hard to openly say what she wants but she wants him, forever and ever and ever. Lol.

So the tease, what is she all about, really she wants the guy, she’s dying to be with him, she uses any silly excuse to WhatsApp him, she waits eagerly for his replies, she’s waiting for him to declare his undying love for her, in other words to put a ring on it. But this she will never admit, oh no! She would rather die than admit this, so instead she plays games enticing and teasing him when she’s “bored”; meaning she’s at home watching a movie and wishes she had a confirmed bae to cuddle up with and have some Netflix and chill time. So there goes the first WhatsApp message of the night and this goes back and forth all night long till he finally feels comfortable to ask her to come over and bang she replies “I’m so tired I’m going to bed”. Applauds to the tease. Let’s just clarify, everything she said she meant there wasn’t a word she didn’t mean.

But as females we need confirmation that he only wants us, that all the other girls are gone, he only wants to spend the rest of his time with us, and not just for the time being but forever, because we’re ladies and the second we give our number to a guy we're secretly planning our wedding and the names of our children.

So ladies which one are you, psycho or tease, don’t forget to please comment and share. 

 
Mwah SLGG!

Men at Christmas

Omg, now I knew men had a particular odour of pity around them, but the stench couldn’t be any worse over the Christmas season. 

It’s as though they feel the need to let every single female, and by every single female I mean me BTW, know that they will be alone for Christmas and new years and even though they are going to be ALONE their more than fine about being ALONE. Omg get over yourselves. 

I mean their not the only ones, I was lucky enough to spend some time with family before coming home to an empty flat, filled with alcohol. : ) You make what you can out of the cards your dealt. I’m sure all these miserable men I had the pleasure of conversing with knew by mid July no girlfriend at this point meant a quite Christmas for one unless you come from a big family.

I’m sorry this is totally a rant but hopefully at least one other female feels my pain. I had one miserable sod wish me a Happy Christmas and when I finally replied some hours later because I knew he was in a mood from the conversation  the night before I got an “ok”, I’m sorry, what??? Keep that negativity your way kmt. I’m not going to lie there were times during Christmas day where I felt slightly down even had a call from a really good friend and kept it short because I didn’t want to be passing on all my negative vibes to her and ruin her Christmas.

So long story short if this is all the men that is left out there; look at me I’m all alone no one loves me type, well needless to say I would rather die single than have to put up with that till death do us part.

Did you encounter any miserable men over Christmas? Don't be shy comment below. 

Peace out SLGG!